30 Lesson I have learned in 30 years

On February 27, 2019 I celebrated my 30th birthday! Now I want share with you 30 lessons that I have learned in 30 years!

  1. I can change the trajectory of my life!
  2. College isn’t for everybody.
  3. You can be anything you think about and work towards.
  4. A baby don’t stop no show, it motivates it!
  5. Just because you fight back does not mean its not abuse!
  6. Save 10% (its more about the habit than the percentage).
  7. Education is everything you learn after you graduate.
  8. Family isn’t everything, but they teach you everything about LIFE!
  9. You are what you do and not what you say you do!
  10. Don’t expect your help to come from those that you help.
  11. Its not what you say, it’s how you say it!
  12. Relationships are WORK!
  13. A goal not written down is just a dream!
  14. You have to be willing to fail 17 times to win once!
  15. First they laugh, then they follow.
  16. Do for people because you want to, not because you expect something in return!
  17. Be open to all life experiences!
  18. Your belief systems determine your world view!
  19. Everyday is a great day to be alive!
  20. When things are going right, cherish them, things can change quickly!
  21. The relationships that children have with their parents are important. They set the tone for how you will nurture and maintain relationships of their own!
  22. Sometimes what you do or don’t do is not for you, it’s for the person you are doing it for!
  23. Listen to your little voice. That’s GOD talking!
  24. Don’t cry from your mistakes, learn from them!
  25. Forgiveness is important, it could stunt your growth!
  26. Family/friends WILL hurt you but everything is not intentional!
  27. It is more beneficial to be more spiritual than religious!
  28. Sometimes you say more with no response!
  29. Change isn’t easy, it takes time!
  30. Being selfish is okay. PUT YOU FIRST ALWAYS!

The lessons I learned are in no particular but they all are equally important!

Thank you for reading! Tell me what you think!