How to Repair a Broken Heart After Sudden Loss

Happy New Year!

I thought I would have said that sooner, but you would not believe what I experienced the first week of the New Year.

First, for the last 5 years on January 4, I take a moment of silence for my grandfather who I lost in 2015 due to pancreatic cancer.

This year I woke up on the 4th determined to have a great day and not mourn my grandfather but reflect on the good times.

I was having an amazing day until I got the phone call I will never forget.

Around 7pm that night.

I was awoken out my sleep and told that one of my favorite people had passed away.

It was so unreal because I was just on the phone with him less than 48 hours from the day he passed away.

Not only that, but he died the same day that his father, my grandfather, passed away.    

Yea it was a lot to deal with.

This was the greatest lost that I had dealt with in my life!

When I talked to him on Saturday the 2nd day of January of this year, he was laughing, and he sounded healthy.

We had one of the best conversations ever.

It is so crazy because I was not going to answer the phone because I had just talked to him a couple days before, but he had called me twice in a row, and when someone calls me twice in a row, I believe its an emergency.

He did not want nothing he just wanted talk lol. That was my uncle!

I am going to miss my uncle!

Anyways, as I was going through this mourning period.

I recognized my community, virtual and reality, was grieving and mourning as well. A lot of people I know are dealing with their own loss.

Today I will share with you some tips that I am using that is helping me get over the pain. Hopefully, these tips can help you too!

Let’s get into it

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3 Ways to Pay Off Your Credit Cards

I don’t know about you but I hate debt.

It gives me anxiety.

I don’t like owing people.

I got my first credit card when I was 18.

My mom tried to warn me, but I didn’t listen.

At 18 I got every card I could think of and I maxed each one out.

I have paid that debt off since then, acquired more, and now I can say in the 2020, I was able to get all my credits down to less than $100 balance, during a pandemic.

In 2021, my goal is to maintain a low balance on my credit cards, while attacking my car payments. I also want to start attacking this school loan debt.

The golden rule is that you do not want your credit card to exceed 30% of the credit limit.

My goal is to definitely stay under that!

I was doing some research and I found that most people my age, 35 and under, have

  1. Student loan debt
  2. Credit Card debt

I know this was true in my life until I paid off my credit cards.

Today, I want to share what I did to pay off my credit card debt and leave you with some methods that can support you in paying off your debt as well.

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Gaining Clarity: A Boss Experience

Last week, I sat down and I got CLEAR.

I got clear on the vision and the mission that I have for my life.

I initially decided to discuss that topic because I wanted to support my tribe, you, in getting clear on your personal life’s mission and having a productive year and life.

A lot of people were coming to me saying that they were confused and didn’t know what direction they should go.


After completing the exercise for myself, I gained even more clarity on my purpose and how I want to spend my days in my old age.

If you have not completed the previous exercises, I encourage you to do so right away.

This week, I have spent a lot of time thinking about what I want my 2021 to look like.

I asked myself,

“What am I going to do in 2021 to help me fulfill my mission?”

“What am I going to do in 2021 to get me closer to the life that envision for myself?”

Asking myself those questions helped me to put a lot of things in perspective.

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How A Moms Vision Can Save Her Child(ren)

For the last two days we have been sculpting the answers to the following questions:

  1. What is your mission for your life?
  2. What is your vision for your life?

Your response to those two questions will support you in living in your purpose!

If you have not read the last 2 articles, please do so, after you get done reading this post.

Let’s get into it.

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