I have been thinking about ways in which I can naturally show up in this space in 2021.
A few weeks ago I felt my anxiety begin to creep in. You know she always lurking around the corner lol.
I was stressed.
The vision that I have for my life does NOT include me stressing over creating content for you for weeks at a time.
So I been thinking,
“how can I show up and show out for you on a consistent basis that works for me and YOU?”
One thing I know for sure, I want to document my journey more.
I struggled with what that would look like in the past, but I am getting an idea of what that will look like in 2021.
Every week, I do a weekly Tarot spread on myself to support me in making decisions and staying focused on my personal success journey.
As a way to support me in documenting my personal journey, I am going to document some of my personal predictions, statements, affirmations and downloads I receive from my weekly readings.
I think it will be fun to see how the readings and predictions play out in my life.
Some people don’t believe in Tarot.
I do.
If Tarot isn’t for you. That’s fine. Come back tomorrow. I have some new content dropping then!
Over the weekend I had the opportunity to host a “Breakfast and Visions” with a group of dope Black entrepreneurs and community leaders from the city of Wilmington, De.
I love hosting those type of events because it gives me the opportunity to support dope people in getting clear about what it is that they want to accomplish in their life and in their business.
I love it!
The conversations that we had during our transformational session, is what inspired this week’s blog post.
I know most of you who read my content are ready to live life on your own terms.
You want to do what you want, when you want.
You want to travel the world, start businesses, give back to your community, and live in peace!
I feel you.
I am with you.
For you to obtain the lifestyle you want, it is important for you to get clear on your Personal Mission Statement .
I am sure if you have worked for any organization, you have heard of a mission statement. It the statement that describes what the organization is about that you are associated with.
Your Personal Mission Statement is bigger than that.
Getting clear on your Personal Mission Statement will support you in making decisions in your life that align with your purpose and core values.
What is a Personal Mission Statement?
Your Personal Mission Statement describes 3 things
who you are
what you do
why you do it
Your Personal Mission Statement helps you to identify your purpose in your life!
Here are 5 questions that you can ask yourself to support you in developing your Personal Mission Statement:
What are my core values?
Who do I serve?
How do I make their lives better?
What do I want to accomplish in my life?
What am I passionate about?
Please remember when developing your Personal Mission Statement:
You must write It down
It should be no more than 2 sentences.
This is the first step in manifesting the life you desire
Share your vision with others
If you need support in getting clear on your life’s mission, please visit:
If you are a aspiring boss momma who is developing an online business or you may already show up in this space, the following thought processes and steps that I decided to take in developing my business this week may be helpful to you!
So keep reading!
This week in my business I made some BIG decisions.
Some BIG decisions that I am proud of!
I told you already in the last post that I decided to choose my niche.
Lol was a big deal for ME.
I already thought about changing it again yesterday.
I found myself saying,
“Antinette you should focus on women. You don’t want to leave out the women who don’t have kids.”
I had to tell myself,
“Shut up! I said what I said.”
In my Nene Leakes voice.
I am focusing on MOMS who are ready to start their own business or take on leadership roles in their personal and professional life.
When you are starting your own business you have to make a decision.
There are going to be many roads that you can go down.
Choose 1. Dominate that field and then move forward if you so choose.
This week I also been focused on STRATEGY!
When you make a decision, you then have to come up with your strategy.
Because I am developing a life that I do not have to vacation from, I have to engage in work that I love so it doesn’t have to feel like work. If that makes sense.
This week, I have been developing a strategy that I will be able to implement for the long haul.
We only have 24 hours in a day.
Half of my day I already have commitments.
I am a stay at home mom, girlfriend, teacher, entrepreneur, maid, cook, and more.
I can’t be out here doing too much.
That is how people get burnt out.
The last couple of weeks I was producing major content
And it felt good, but I knew that although I liked what I was doing, I would not be able to keep that up longterm.
Then my weekly reading confirmed it.
The theme: “My strategy will reduce my anxiety”. This was a call to look at my strategy, because honestly my anxiety was on the rise.
So I been focused.
I been focused on 2 things, but before I get into it
Ask Yourself, “The way I am working right now. Will this be effective in the long run?”
If you answer was NO to the question above, focus on the following 2 questions.
What is the ultimate goal that I am working toward right now?
The Ultimate Goal that I am working toward right now, in my career, is getting paid to create value online.
2. How can I easily show up in this space?
When I reflected on how I can easily show up in this space, I thought about
what it is that I love to do
It was clear that I loved writing. There are times when I am recording my podcast or doing something else that has nothing to do with writing, and I find myself wishing that I am writing. I like to write. That comes easy to me.
I love blogging as well. When it comes to showing up easily, I thought about how by me narrowing my audience, I would be able to expanded my message by talking to a particular group of people. Also blogging will help me to be naturally consistent. Consistency is key online.
2. what I like doing
I like the podcast. I like the blog and the podcast because I can show up crusty and/or musty and no one knows or cares lol.
3. what is stressing me out
What was stressing me, was trying to combine all this together. My strategy was all wrong as it pertains to showing up in this online space.
Also, I didn’t have my target audience down so it was hard for me to develop my message and be clear with who I am talking to. I was clear on what but not on who!
Today though I came up with an online strategy that will support me in reaching my business goals! My strategy is way more specific but the following sums it up
Moving forward:
My central form of communication will be my blog. It just makes sense. I literally wrote this in less than an hour. I love writing. And after writing my book, I see myself doing more of it. In many forms. Also, the numbers are a motivating factor. Yall be tuned in! Thank you!
Your Take Away: Choose 1 way to dominate in this online space. Are you a blogger, vlogger, social media influencer.
2. My podcast & YouTube Channel topics that I choose will piggyback off what I am talking about on my blog for the week.
Your Take Away: If you choose to be apart of other platforms reuse the content from your main choice of communication. This way you don’t have to recreate content all the time.
3. The goal of my social media moving forward is to engage with my community, direct community to my website and to sale my products.
Your Take Away: Knowing your goals, help you to create objectives that will support you in getting closer to your goal
This week’s realizations, are really going to help me develop clearer messaging, reach my target audience and customer, and reach other business goals.
I hope you can use the above tips on your journey in developing your online business.
If you want support developing in developing and achieving your business goals, I encourage you to schedule your clarity session today!
It has been a minute since I actually sat down and wrote you!
I have been putting so much time into developing other parts of this brand that I have not been able to do what I love the most.
And that is write.
The last couple of weeks have been enlightening and I am making some big decisions regarding my brand and my voice.
There will be some revamps coming soon to my website and I am truly excited about my present and especially for 2021.
Here is a heads up!
Beginning today, you will begin to see my content change!
I finally decided to do something that I have been resisting for 2 years and that is choosing a “niche”.
If you have been following me for a while, you know that this has been a real struggle for me.
I struggle because I do not want to leave anyone out.
However, I am pass that!
Since I have been seriously focusing only on this business for the last couple of months, I have realized that I will be burnt out if I don’t focus on one group of people to develop and build up.
As I began to think about who and what I want to focus on, I began to think about me and my life and what would be “easy”.
When I say “easy” I don’t mean without challenge, but “easy” to incorporate with my lifestyle.
I want my brand to represent me fully and I do not want to do or be too much outside of myself to attract my tribe.
Because I am building a virtual business, I realize that I have to create content that speaks to a particular group of people.
Sombody.
There are 7.59 billion people in the world.
There are 3.81 billion people on social media.
Me trying to speak to everyone just isn’t effective for what it is I want to achieve in this online space.
After much thought and reflection.
Here is who I chose
MOMS
Yes MOMS
It makes perfect sense.
As a mom myself, with a special needs child, a homeschool teacher to two, and a girlfriend, founder of 2 businesses, times get tough.
I want to speak more to my experience as that.
I want to create a space where I can share my journey regarding my personal life, relationship(s), parenting, entrepreneurship, and a little bit of Tarot lol.
Now that I know who and what I am going to focus on.
Moving forward when I go live, I know exactly who I am speaking to.
When I write my blog, I know exactly who I want to read my content.
I am currently working on an online course and “niching down” has helped me to find my voice as it pertains creating that.
I have truly saw the value in “niching down” so far.
Because some of you have been rocking with me for a while, I wanted to make this announcement, that I am evolving.
Welcome to episode 17 of Boss Talk Coversation with Antinette!
For those of you who do not know, my name is Antinette.
I am a mom of 2, an entrepreneur, and manifestation expert. I support my clients in designing and living their best life!
Periodt!
I am so happy that you could join the conversation today!
During todays conversation, we are tackling the monster of PROCRASTINATION?
Be honest, are you someone who likes to hold things of until the last minute?
Did you know there is a reason why you do this, and it is not because you want just don’t feel like it.
By the end of todays conversation, I will help you to understand where your procrastination stems from, while also providing you with solutions that will support you in conquering the beast!
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To join my private FB group, Boss Talk Conversation. The link is below:
In todays conversation I share with you 3 things you must DO before you start any NEW journey!
I wanted to have this conversation today because I know that you watching this right now was called to begin a new journey.
You have been called to start a new career, start a new business, a new relationship, maybe a new weight loss journey, whatever journey you are starting, I want to equip you with the tools that you need so that you can have a better chance of being successful on your new journey
So lets get into it
Recognize
You want to recognize where you are now, why are you here, and the part you played in the situation that led you to this outcome.
2. Commit to HEALING
To heal = to become sound or healthy
Some of you are trying to start something new on faulty ground
3. Be devoted to your GROWTH
You have to remember why you started!
And you must never give up!
God would never put a vision in you that you cannot manifest
I really hope todays conversation was helpful for you
Episode 12 is a pre recorded Live that first aired, yesterday, 10.12.2020.
During yesterday’s live I answered 3 questions:
1. Who am I?
Not to brag or for sympathy. But for transparency purposes. My goal is to build a relationship with you and telling YOU my story is my way of letting you in.
2. What do I do?
I do a lot, all in the name of supporting the people I serve in designing and living their best life. I want you to know all about it!
3. How it benefits YOU?
My purpose is to support YOU in designing and living YOUR best life while making sure that I do the same. If you ready to make some moves but haven’t gotten started for whatever reason.
Heyy Yall!
Whats going on!
Thank you so much for listening to episode 9 of Boss Talk Conversations, a podcast that is dedicated to you Bossn' up in every area of your life!
August 31, 2020 I made an announcement. I let the world know that I accomplished a huge goal and wrote my 1st book!!
Yayyyyy!!
Get your copy here:
https://antinettedevelops.com/?post_type=product
After making my announcement, my inbox was flooded with questions, about the self publishing process.
In todays episode, I want to share part of my journey.
I share 7 steps that I personally took to achieve my goal of becoming an author in 7 months!
Yeah you read right, 7 MONTHS!
If I can do it, you can do it too!
Talk to you all soon.
Please follow me on @mynameis_antinette
Join my private FB group: Boss Talk Conversation
EMail me; Tgn@antinettedevelops.com
THE LINK TO THE PODCAST IS AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE. PRESS PLAY!!
Episode 7: Fasting | A Boss Experience
Hey Bosses!
Happy Monday! It is a great day to be ALIVE!
I want to welcome you to episode 7 of Boss Talk Conversations, where every conversation is focused on you bossing up mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually.
In this conversation, we are focused on FASTING
For those of you who do not know, fasting is the withholding from food/drinks or something that brings you joy, something that you claim you cant live without, for a certain period of time.
I participated in this fast because, I wanted to hear GOD. I wanted to be closer to him, so could hear what my next steps should be, led by God, not by me.
In this episode I share
1. Why I decided to partake in a fast
2. How I prepared for the fast
3. 11 major take aways that I received from engaging in my spiritual fast
This episode is for you if you have ever thought about partaking in a fast before.
Boss
Its time to elevate to the next level.
The only way you can elevate and stay on the next level is if you, get your mind, body, and spirit right.
